Victim to victimiser: an uncomfortable truth

It is uncomfortable for me to recognise the impact of my behaviour on others.

There is a narrative that says: “Victims of sexual abuse become perpetrators” and we all know that this certainly does not have to be the case.However I do need to recognise that, in subtle ways, I have  victimised others.

This recording explains my experience of this–from kicking the dog when I was an 8 year old child, to hurling heavy books at a solicitor in a law firm where I worked, and throwing a cast iron pot at a man who I perceived as abusive.

My emotional literacy was stunted at 6 years old and now, 50 years later, it’s still in development. I have to teach myself to understand my impact on others:

The photo was taken in a park near the beach at Scarborough. I was drawn by the shapes and textures of the rock

3 Comments Add yours

  1. von says:

    Thankyou for caring and sharing serena.
    von.

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  2. sasperella says:

    I struggle with this too, thank you for your recording Serena you are such an inspiration

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    1. Thanks Sasperella. It’s good to know that sharing helps!

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